Value of Friends

Ecclesiastes 4:7-12
7 I observed yet another example of meaninglessness in our world. 8 This is the case of a man who is all alone, without a child or a brother, yet who works hard to gain as much wealth as he can. But then he asks himself, "Who am I working for? Why am I giving up so much pleasure now?" It is all so meaningless and depressing.9 Two people can accomplish more than twice as much as one; they get a better return for their labor. 10 If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble. 11 And on a cold night, two under the same blanket can gain warmth from each other. But how can one be warm alone? 12 A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.

We depend too much on self. We believe we're the only one who can do a certain job and then we refuse to ask for help. We're afraid to allow others to take over task. We believe they are incapable of doing things to our standards. Why?

I see this as Satan's way of robbing us from the happiness and contentment God desires for us. We are so busy in the details that we don't look at the big picture. We need the support of others. Having this support allows us to see life in a different and proper perspective. Our values are different. We are able to enjoy the fruits of our labor. Otherwise, we work in vain, for nothing. God wants us to focus on the important things, not the details.

My prayer for you today is you will see the value of friends.

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Connie Arnold said…
Friends are so important! Thank you for the reminder to see the value in them. Nice post!
July 19, 2010 at 7:43 AM
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